I would not order with unfinished cabinets - I would work through dealer to see if HL can stain/finish in a color that works for you and HL (ie stain that is in another HL product already).
Trying to finish woods after they are installed - works ok on wood, not so great on faux finish particle board. If I am not mistaken, BC has real wood doors/fronts, faux wood and finish on stiles, returns?
Brian