Interesting discussion. Our motorhome had both a gravity fill and a valve to fill when connected to city water. The instructions were to leave the cap off the gravity flow when filling off the city connection. When the tank was full, the excess would simply overflow out of the gravity fill. When we did the PDI on my new Bighorn this weekend, it was explained that the only way to fill the tank was off the valve to the city connection in the UDC. I asked if the tank had an overflow and was told no. I asked what happened if you overfilled and was greeted with shrugging shoulders and a statement that, "I think it comes out the vent'" Considering that the vent is pretty small, I'm guess that you're not going to get a lot of pressure relief and could, conceivably, rupture the tank if you are filling with too much pressure.
I have resolved that I will closely monitor fill status at the info panel as I am filling. As it gets close, I will go to the UDC and throttle way back on the city water input.....slow it down to a trickle, until I get a little water out of the vent. Someone else here may have a better solution, but I would hesitate to just leave the city connection wide open.....that's asking to rupture the tank.