Larry,
If you get a generator at some point and want to pull much of the load of your RV, including one A/C, get a *3,000-4,500 watt unit with a remote control starter and an extended run-time fuel tank.
As for the inverter, it's a balance of how much load you want to pull vs. how much weight you want to carry in batteries (and space and $$$). Many people use a 2000 to 3000 watt inverter with 2 to 4 large batteries.
This information is a good starter for you to noodle for a while. For your use, I would recommend this:
3,000-4,500 watt Honda or Yamaha inverter style generators with remote start and an extended run-time fuel tank, mounted on a platform welded to the back of your RV. This, knowing you cannot lift this generator. Another option is to have it mounted into your truck and keep a vinyl cover on it when not in use.
Then, a small pure sine wave inverter that will run your BiPap. Pair the inverter with a set of Trojan T-105 6 volt golf cart batteries or better yet, 2 sealed AGM type batteries that do not require electrolyte maintenance.
To calculate a load in watts, many devices have their wattage or amperage draw listed on a plate on the device or in the paperwork. If it is a 110 volt AC device and it lists the wattage - there ya go. If it is a 110 volt AC device and it lists amperage, multiply the listed amperage by 110 to get the wattage.
Have fun!
Jim
* 3,000/4,000/4,500 watt generators are used by a good many RVers. That said, they may NOT pull the load of the entire RV all at once. For example, if you need to use the air conditioning, you will not want to run the water heater on AC power. Rather, you'd run it on LP. You may have to turn the air conditioner off to use the microwave. It's all a function of the combined load these devices are pulling. But for general all around use, the 3,000-4,500 watt generators are widely used. If you want to pull it all - it's hard to beat a 6,500 watt portable generator. But for a portable unit, that's a bit unwieldy!