Also, if your black and gray drain out of the same drain hole you could use the gray water to back flush into the black tank to help dislodge anything blocking the black tank opening.
If you put one of these on your drain (it is a good safety measure to have to help prevent doing 'the brown shoe shuffle' and is only $25 at Camping World):
https://www.campingworld.com/twist-on-valve
(I will never own a camper without one of these)
I do this all the time!
Matter of fact, I'll be doing it this morning when I park my Prowler in storage until next time I go out (no campouts planned until Sept. as I just finished a 6-month run).
With the Valterra twist-on gate valve you can drain the black tank, then close the Valterra valve, but leave the black tank valve open, and with a good amount of water in your gray tank you can open the gray valve and the gray water will flow into the black tank.
You can hear it gurgling (or I put my hand on the drain pipe and feel it)...and when it stops gurgling...close the gray tank valve and open the Valterra gate valve and the water will come out.
I'll repeat this process several times until I don't see anymore 'stuff' coming out in the water.
I like to do this while the built-in black tank flush is running to help get the crud off of the bottom of the tank.
Hope this helps!