Got excited but it was a bust again. Ordered the fuse tap as reported above and went to the store just now to pick it up. It is the same size as the one I had...which is too big for my 15 chevy 3500 fuses I need to tap into. I guess Chevy is using another new small fuse. The three sizes I am aware of from the past are the biggest (which we've had since a kid), then a medium size that looks just like the bigger one, and then there is a smaller size that does not look like the two previous as the connectors run outside of the sides of the fuse.
My Chevy has fuses that are about the size of this last fuse I described but the connectors come out the bottom like the two larger fuses described above. And it does seem like there is no fuse tap available for this size. Someone (at a parts store) told me it is new with Chevy and I have not seen any at the stores. I did a search just now on line and saw other sites that say these fuses are not available in stores yet.
So I am going to drop the idea of ignition turn off for the pump. I do understand I can break into some 12 volt power line but don't want to go digging under the dash or even in the engine compartment. So I bought a small red LED at the store this morning and will make it see-able from under the hood by where the windshield washer spray nozzle is at. This way when the pump is on the light will light up.
Once I get it all finished, which should be today, I'll start another post on the project.
Thanks again for everyone's input.