Based on the manual, I think this thermostat is supposed to have separate modes for FURNACE and HEAT PUMP. So...if the bedroom thermostat is showing FURNACE, it should be running the furnace, not the heat pump.
If that's actually the case, you're probably going to have to have your dealer tear into it to figure out what's going on.
I am going to call Heartland and see if there is another solution. The closest dealer is a ways away and because we are in it full time (for now) I cant leave it at the dealer for more than a day.
Thanks for your help!
Mike