Hey Dave - thanks again for your feedback. Always appreciate it and I think keeping the conversation going on this topic is healthy. While we all may not always agree, I think we all learn a bit more.
I did pull the trigger on my system. Like you, I'll be filtering my coach water. Where we vary is you're running a Water Softener for all but drinking and I'm running Reverse Osmosis.
Water softeners use Ion Exchange and RO uses filters. Both remove "some" of the same stuff. Each process has a negative artifact. Softeners add some amount of sodium (through the Ion Exchange process) to the water and RO systems alter the pH toward the acid side.
In my case, I will be running a pH filter that will neutralize the acidity of the RO water before it hits my tank or anything else with the goal being a pH of 7. Note that my ability to adjust the pH with a filter is not variable. So I'll get what I get - but I will be monitoring and recording TDS and pH. My friend Michael Kidd just checked his pH and his feed water (5.7) is the same pH (also 5.7) as his RO water after the pH filter. So he could not achieve a neutral pH of 7, but he was able to correct the pH to match what the campground was feeding him.
I will also be running a solid block carbon filter after I pull the RO water from my tank. This "Polishing Filter" does a few things:
1. Further filtering of bacteria etc
2. Add-back of "some" mineral
3. Improvement of water flavor from flat/bland to a bit of body
I agree with you that it's not all about cost savings. My system will take "at least" 2 years to pay-off. For me, my advantages are:
1. Ability to significantly "automate" water production
2. Better water for all uses: clothes washing, dish washing, RV/Truck washing (spot free!), drinking, dogs, cooking etc.
3. Eliminate water spotting on water fixtures, shower walls and glass doors
4. Consistent water pressure throughout the coach, regardless of campground water (I'll be using a pump for 100% of water usage)
5. Better water for our skin
With regard to reactor water, my friend Michael was a Nuclear Reactor Operator on a sub in the Navy. He too told me reactor grade water was among the purest.