I went here
http://www.hitchfinder.com/ and put my specs in. I put the reese rails in my truck because my dad had them in his truck and I have an extra set at home for another old truck that I have. I don't mind too much. They have the extra bracket set to mount the rails to. I did my own install in the front yard. Wasn't too horrible but I don't mind doing my own stuff. I wish I had some helpful hints but it was pretty straight forward. All I would say is to put your hitch base in the rails to make everything line up.
You can drill the frame and they tell you how. It isn't rocket science, just don't drill too close to the rounded corners and make sure that you either have a spacer in between the frame rails or you are pulling against the inside. With that kit you will be fishing wires through to put your bolts in there. It is normal. I have towed my 3795 6,000 miles already and never even had a bolt work loose the first time. They stayed torqued from the start.
I also ordered the in bed mounted plug for the 5th wheel. They have one there that just plugs into the back of the factory one under the bottom and it is a T with an extension on it that goes up into the bed. I had to put mine behind the driver fender well. All plug and play with no cutting of wires. Just a single hole in the inner bed panel.
THe other thing I did with mine was drill everything and take the rails and the plug back out before I got my line-X liner put in. That made it so that my holes had some rust proofing around them as well. I haven't had any issues by doing it that way and would recommend it to anyone.
Have fun with it. It looks like a great truck. I would probably head over to cumminsforum.com if you have any questions that come up about it.
Chris