Well, after all that stressing.....I passed. Easily.
Again, no one asked for my "escort." I had to do straight backing lane, this examiner had me zig zag into the box from the parking spot instead of straight into the box and had me go completely forward out of the box, then back up straight down the line. Told me to put the back end of the trailer over the end line then honk the horn. Got it first try, pretty simple.
Then from there he put the cone thing, one next to and almost on top of the other and I had to right turn around it to 90 degrees end. Said to get as close to the cone as I could without hitting it. Nailed it. I was probably 3 feet away from the cone but he said that was fine.
Then the dreaded load dock test. I decided not to use my jack knife technique as much on the asphalt. So I gently turned the trailer towards the box, then a little more, then when it was time to turn the trailer, I turned it good to get it going straight into the box. It overcorrected a bit so I had to pull up once, that's it. Nailed it. Skills test complete. Woo hoo.
TIP: I learned to go slow on the drills which is huge. You can stop if you need to, they don't count that as a pull up or error. Take your time, breath, believe in your practice and nail it. I was pleasantly surprised how well I handled the trailer on that skills test.
Now, here is what was cool. He was okay with my being 3 feet away from the cone on the turn. After he told me I passed, I asked him if I got it in the little 3 feet box in the back. He said I was about 5 feet away from the end. So, it seems they give a little leeway for us RVers. The "Alley Box" was only 20 feet deep and he told me beforehand the line stops in the box, so I didn't have to worry about an "imaginary line" going out from the side of the box, and could use as much of the space in front of the box I wanted.
Then the drive test, which I knew I would fly through. Main City streets, one side street (not too small, nothing was too tight or small on the drive test,) then on the freeway, get off, turn around and come back. No errors. Woo hoo.
So, I am now Class A non commercial licensed driver. If anyone needs a Class A driver to go to DMW with or even train with, let me know. I live in the north coast county area of San Diego (Oceanside/Carlsbad/Vista) and the commercial DMV down here is pretty laid back.