Bob & Joyce,
I don't know what to say to you about this problem. All I know is that this is an ongoing problem. We have a 2006 Bighorn 3055RL. Within 2 weeks of purchasing this thing, we had to replace the entire mechanism with another because the dead bolt did exactly as you have described. I had trouble with the new one once and was lucky enough to get it to work and release my door once. We have not used it since. We NEVER set the dead bolt from the outside. Seems like they could get this type of thing cleared up over a period of time. However, the industry really doesn't give a rat's A%% about us. My recommendation is that if you can get it to allow you to release your 5vr, don't use it again.