Hi Steve - I would confirm that weight capacity, seems really light for a 1 ton. What is the GVRW of the truck? I know the Fords have always carried a little more, but here are the numbers on mine. GVWR is 11,600 pounds, wich a truck weight of around 7600 with me in there. Leaves about 4000 for hitch, hitch weight, gear, whatever. Well within the limits. 2500 weight capacity is what the 3/4 Ford has, I believe the GVRW on a 250 is 10,000 and the 250 and 350 weigh about the same. Usually it is the giant tri-axles that demand the dualy because they have a much hugher GVWR of the trailer (18K) and more tongue weight than a traditional 5th wheel, due to carrying more weight behind the axles. At the end of the day, you are probably fine but at least you know where you stand.
Well, i did a little more research and it looks like your GVWR of your 2008 GMC 3500 is 9900 pounds, which would explain the lower hitch weight rating. Sounds like all of your calculations are correct, the GMC just has a lower GVWR that I suspected. What is really nuts is that the 2500 is 9200 pounds, so there really isn't much of a difference. If you bought a 2011 GM product, I know that the GVWR is much higher due to the new frame for 2011, you would certainly not need a dualy in a 2011 model. Good luck!