The crop scale, was it a single platform scale?
CAT scales are mostly 3 platforms so you can get your steer axle, drive axle and trailer axles weight as well as a combined weight. If you have a smart phone, the CAT app makes it easy to find one.
I dont know know how accurate they are, but they are certified and guarantee their readings.
Using a 3 platform scale also let's you know your steer axle weight. You wouldn't want your front axle to be unloaded to the point of being hazardous to drive.
It really sounds like now that you have weighed your rig you are not comfortable with that knowledge.
There is only one why to put yourself back in the comfort zone. Oversized high pressure, hard riding tires, bigger springs, bigger brakes, changing driveline components will still not solve your problem.
With the GM truck line there have been significant advances from the 2003 to 2005 model year, again in the 05-06,06-07 and 08 and above.
Just just my opinion, i would save your money and put it towards the truck that fits your needs.
There are more then just 1 or 2 members on the forum that have been exactly where you are today and where for instance, I am today. For me it was a 2006 GMC 2500, with lots of upgrades, to a 3500 DRW.
I have the ability, tools and knowledge to replace ring and pinions. But, I'm not doing that in my driveway and I'm certainly not going to do it on both the rear AND FRONT axle. Let's not forget, with four wheel drive you have two drive trains combined.
It was not a CAT scale, but a certified scale at a crop production services. Weighing grains and stuff trucked in and out. I got a weight slip, it was easy in and easy out. So it was up to me to know to do each axle on the truck. I did not know I needed that so I got total truck and total combined truck and camper. Reweigh for a buck, good deal. Do they all do that?