Look for panels that are removable but don't look it, particularly carpet-covered ones. The screws that hold them on are often buried in the carpet and hard to find without a sharp eye or magnet. Look especially in the basement area close to your circuit breaker / power center panel. Since these aren't regular-service items, RV makers usually don't bother with nice, hinged/latched access panels. You usually need to unscrew them to get them off. This cable is very thick and ugly so it's almost never routed through the living space. It'll probably go from your shower power port/reel down into the undercarriage and then back up into the basement very close to your breaker panel.
Side note: this can be a popular mod/hack to get a bit more storage space. They usually put these panels wherever it's quick/easy to install. Sometimes there's several feet of extra room back there...
Be prepared. It can be a real mess back there. Here's ours. It's a little hard to see because it wasn't what I was focusing on, but you can just about make out the 50A shore power feed here. It's not the black wire to the charger (silver box, center left). In the first photo, focus on the closest flex duct just hanging there. Just below it is a very thick black cable that comes up out of the undercarriage along with a half-dozen 14ga (white) romex. It curves to the right under that duct and then is routed into the back of the breaker panel.
I didn't pay close attention to it but I would guess it's 6-3 - about as thick as your thumb. (Thinner than the shore power cable itself, which has a much thicker jacket for protection and is also stranded, which makes it bulkier.)
If you're still having trouble finding it, (with the power off, obviously) remove the four screws holding your breaker panel in place. It should pull out with about 20lb of force - this IS a service item, so there will be enough wire loops to allow it to come out about a foot. You should be able to shine a flashlight back there and find the main feed line - it'll be the biggest cable there.