Bruce:
I checked the Heartland RV's website and came up with the following capacities chart:
http://www.heartlandrvs.com/index.php?p=35&c=midprofile&sc=SD&view=specs
The chart lists 80 gallons for "gray tank" and evidently adds the capacities of the 2 gray tanks together, so I would assume your tanks are 40 gallons each. That is a lot of grey water to generate in one day, so I would be suspicious, too. The OEM status monitor in-tank sensor gauges are pretty much accepted by everyone as being worthless. There are upgrades out there with good reputations that either measure THROUGH the tank wall using capacitive sensing, or another brand that uses a sensitive pressure sensor screwed into the outflow piping before the gate valve.
If you really want to test if you have a problem: dump the tank, close the valve, and refill it until it backs up into the sink using a measured container like a 5 gallon bucket. That will give you an approximate capacity measurement.
One problem that has been reported often is the when the 3 inch (?) plastic holes are cut in the tanks for the piping at the factory with a hole saw, the cut out plastic disk falls into the tank and is not retrieved by the worker. This jams up the tank outflow.
I hope you are still in warranty.