Or you could just look in the basement at the vent pipes coming from the black tank and Gray #1 (the lavatory tank). Pretty obvious which is which, after that, since they basically go straight up from their respective tanks once they enter the wall space. In the photo, you can see the black tank vent near the toilet pipe. The lavatory tank vent is further over, with the drain from the sink and shower connecting to it.
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