Weight distribution in RV, pin location on truck, air ride pin box and hitch all contribute to aid things. Personally, sounds like all 4 in this case. I opted for a 5th AirBorne pin box, B&W hitch which allows pin to be relocated fore-aft a couple inches. Feel weight is ok front to back in coach and end result is no chucking or movement and ride is great.
I would start off by making sure weight is even, then the pin box. Go in steps to fine tune things. Redistributing the weight won't cost you a dime. After that, it adds up. We've all been there. Let us know how you make out.