When your post is posted and approved by the moderator it shows up on the New Posts on the top line and in your activity area. You do not need for someone to post after you do. I use to run a forum using the same software so I am very aware how it works. Also based on I am posting after you then it should be showing up on New Posts. Go take a look.
I just checked new posts and this thread is no where to be seen and it has had more activity in the last hour than most of the threads there. I really do not want to argue this but at the same time I am very unhappy with this cover up. I'm done.
I don't run any forums, but I do know that at least with the 6 years of use with this one that:
Moderators do not approve posts. You write, hit submit, it is posted.
If it is in violation, it would be edited or removed by the first mod to see it.
Posts usually do not get deleted unless they are a gross violation of the rules
Usually you would get a notice of deletion from the moderator that deleted it
Some posts get edited to follow the rules and sometimes those moderators will note that the post was edited (see JimToo's edit above)
Some moderators seem to have a different level of tolerance or understanding on some topics and rules and may be a bit heavy fingered with the delete button. I am against censorship but understand why it happens on occasion. And when I don't agree - I will call it out. Although like most business's, management tends to follow along with subordinates and back them up
I think in my use here that overall, HL and been fairly flexible with allowing what is posted here, kudos and complaints.
Sunnybrook shut down the Sunnybrook users forum overnight for far less. Logged on one day and posted, next morning - vapor. Took several days to find out since everything related to the forum was gone.
I never log out of this forum. But whenever I come back on, my own last post will not show up as a new post when I click that button. If my wife goes on under her screen name my post will show up.
The thread will only show up under whats new, under your log in if someone else makes a post.
If you have your notifications set right, the first person to make a post will get you an email with that post, even if it was deleted.
BTW, anytime I make a post that I think might be controversial - I copy, paste and send it to myself before hitting the submit button.
Another way to keep a copy for yourself is to submit then immediately quote, copy and email to your self.
Don't take this a support for general censorship, I don't like it. But we are in their house and we are not paying to subscribers, so their rules.
Now on to your trailer, I feel for you on that. No doubt the growth in the past 5 years has shown up on the assembly line. Issues like you are currently experiencing along with everything else I follow, is what is keeping the Cyclone behind the Ford.
And as long as bean counters, corporate officers, engineering, designers, fabricators, builders and assembly line folks do not go camping, we will continue to experience countless little issues that just make no sense to the end users.