Just to try and understand you, are you suggesting that the average person with minimal training is going to be able, in a fear for my life event, to assess their fear level and switch from non lethal to lethal force? If this is true why do concealed carry classes teach you when and how to safely deploy your sidearm and not your can of pepper spray first? My guess is because if you fear for your life, you just do.
You also said that non LEO's do not encounter the same people that LEO's do for the most part. If that were any kind of true crime would be almost non existent. When seconds count the police are minutes away. From my experience, and I have many years of it, law enforcement ends up taking a report more often than they actually save anyone. Not their fault that is just the way it is. I know this because while the LEO's are saturating a neighborhood looking for the perp, I am rushing the victim to the ER. I have actually sat on a side street for 10-15 minutes at times waiting for police to show up and declare a scene safe so I could go in and render aid. It may sound like I am bashing LEO's but I am not. I have the utmost respect for most of them and good long lasting friendships with many who have literally saved my life.
As I have stated before, I have been on just as many calls from law enforcement to treat them for pepper spray as I have criminals. I have been on way to many calls where the pepper spray and taser deployment had zero effect. None. Recently I went to a domestic where they tased and sprayed a 40 yo male numerous times as he was holed up in his garage after thumping his wife unconscious. Tox screen at the er, zero zilch nada. So with that being said, how can you advocate for an average citizen to consider pepper spray when they fear for their life, against someone who may be blown out of their mind on pcp? How is anyone even supposed to know there are drugs on board an attacker? How do you access an attackers pain threshold? There are many stories out there where LEO's use deadly force in the same situation and with back up.
It has worn me down as a person to see what people are willing to do to each other. Every. Single. Day. It saddens me how many people think that nothing bad will ever happen to them. It is disheartening to me how many people are not prepared to deal with those who wish to do them harm.
So you have been RVing for 20 years without anybody doing you harm, good I hope it stays that way. So you have never witnessed anything bad happen in a RV park, good I hope it stays that way. So these are the reasons you do not carry a gun? Ok I understand that to a point. Nothing bad is going to happen to you ever right? I hope so, I really do. I promise you though, should I be there when god forbid something bad does happen to you, I will be a good witness when the police show up, and I will grab my medic bag from my RV and do the best I can for you until EMS shows up.